LIFE BY DESIGN
GET READY FOR THE YEAR 2023!
LET GO OF 2022
Create and experience your life
full of energy, joy, happiness, fulfillment and satisfaction in all areas.
STEP 1
Looking at the timeline of 2022
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What are the main events month by month
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How did they make you feel
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What impact did they have on you
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How does my ups and downs graph look
STEP 2
Understanding the key themes
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You find your 'key events' - those which are like stones thrown into the water - created a chain of important consequences for you. ( See circles as an example)
STEP 3
Finding Your Happy Moments
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When did you feel especially happy
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What brought you joy/energy
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What were the 'wonders of life', the moments where you felt especially 'connected'
STEP 4
Plans vs reality
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What were your goals for 2022
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In the actual events how much was due to your deliberate action and how much - due to emerging circumstances
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What was the pressure your 'deliberate' part created for you if things went 'wrong'
STEP 5
Understanding your Dislikes
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What are your main 'I don't like this' moments (look at discomfort, resistance, resentment, irritation, anger)
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What was the discomfort that brought growth
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What was the discomfort of misalignment with yourself or self-betrayal
STEP 6
My 'Unfinished Business'
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What do you feel you still need to do
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What are your unprocessed emotions
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What is difficult to let go
STEP 7
My PROUD moments
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What did you learn from 2022
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What are you proud of
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What do you congratulate yourself on
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What do you thank yourself for
STEP 8
Looking into the future
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Your goals for 2023 (not more than 10)
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What are the ' common denominators' you see - recurring themes, uniting motives
STEP 9
What is it really that you'are seeking
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Looking at your most important goal (s) you ask yourself 6 times 2 questions
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'I want to get this so that...?'
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'Why I need that?'
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'What is it that I really want?'
STEP 10
If 2023 is to be the BEST year your of _____(what you really want)
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What needs to happen
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What are your behaviours that lead there
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What are 2 questions you'll ask yourself to check if you are on the right path - they will be your 'map' and your ' compass)
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Ref:
Natasha Chopra, Coach
Alsu Kashapova, Holistic Therapist
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